Why Do Men And Women Cheat
There are many reasons why married people cheat. Upwards of
40 % of married couples are impacted by unfaithfulness, and despite the high
percentage, most people—even those who stray—will say that cheating is wrong.
Risk factors such as personality disorders and early day's issues, as well as opportunity
such as social media and poor limitations, can raise the chance that one
of these reasons will actually lead to some type of affair.
Frustration in the marriage is one common cause—the cheater
may make several attempts to solve problems to no avail. Maybe she had second opinion
about getting marital or he was jealous over the interest given to a new baby
and neither had the skill set to correspond these feelings. Perhaps the
straying other half has childhood baggage—neglect, abuse, or a parent who
cheated—that interferes with his or her capability to maintain a loyal
relationship. Less often, the cheater doesn't value monogamy, lacks understanding,
or simply doesn't care about the consequences.
We will take a look at a number of risk factors and causes
for cheating, but it's vital to point out up front that a partner doesn't reason
their spouse to cheat. Whether it was a cry for help, an exit plan, or a means
to get revenge after being cheated on them, the cheater alone is responsible
for cheating.
With or without
individual or marital risk factors there are a number of probable reasons for
marital disloyalty. Underlying many of the reasons, however, lay a few threads.
One is the role of unmet needs. One partner may be unable of fulfilling their
partner's needs, but far too often, those needs have not been uttered. Marital
partners are not mind readers. Another is the lack of addressing problems
directly.
- Unhappiness/Dissatisfaction:
- Feeling Unappreciated:
- Lack of Commitment
- Boredom
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